Sad Words

People say and do things in life that they may not realize may not be the best for them along with things they wonder about

All too often people do things they regret. It is part of life that happens all the time. Things that are said along with actions combined are not easy to admit or even talk about. Having a way to talk about regrets and mistakes can be something that is hard to do for most people as a result of not knowing how to put it into words. “For all of sad words of tongue or pen the saddest are these “it might have been” is a saying that is very true. It casts doubt on situations because of not being able to see the entire picture until later on with the ability to eventually move on.

Learning in life is something everyone can do but not something everyone does from being too ignorant and unwillingness to learn. They do not see both or all sides of a situation to be able to understand it better. Part of life is learning new things. Some do not learn from not having diverse friends or being exposed to different cultures or people. However, it is hard for some to change. It is a foreign concept for them to be put into different situations. They are unsure what to do or say so they go with the flow in addition to whether or not they become more comfortable around people that are different than them. Doing so leads often leads to becoming more open minded from seeing that it is okay to be different.

Moving on is just as tough because of the future being unsteady waters. They do the best they can with different experiences with different people. Often times, they do not put themselves in others shows to get a better understanding of others way of life or thinking. They not only have no idea how to do so but do not want to either. They do not realize what they are currently doing.  With time some realize what their mistakes were and how to fix it. With that comes learning and moving forward with a different view in addition to outlook on life.

Obstacles

Obstacles are all over the place in life with people reacting to them as well as dealing with them in different ways

Obstacles will always be around in life it is how they are overcome that can make a difference. Also, it is how one is overcome that is a big step for anyone. Learning from it and helping others is one way that some are able to deal with it. Many do not overcome different situations that results in getting stuck in the past instead of moving on. However, there are just as many that are able to overcome because of seeing that life goes on and they can also. seeing what life can become after the situation has passed is something that many have seen. Getting past the emotion that come from time to time can be hard to deal with but worth it in the end.

Many do not realize that obstacles are put in the way to overcome them with or without help. Life is full of obstacles of different sizes and time frames. Some are slower than others to overcome obstacles because of taking a little more time. Each is different as the next for each person. The same situations may take more time for one person as a friend. Each obstacle is put in the way to see how much can be handled along with how it is handled. Teaching and helping others can affect everyone in a positive way as a result of being able to learn from someone else who went through something similar.

Everyone overcomes obstacles at some point. As with anything else baby steps lead to that. Often times it may not seem like much but it will in time. It takes time to do anything with time comes the proof to show. It shows that anything can and will be done. It also shows that it will benefit others by helping them. The result is that everyone wins by simply helping each other when needed.