Saturday, April 28, 2012

Epilepsy Tips


Having people that can and will help is something that will benefit everyone in the long run. Sharing experiences can bring something to the table that wasn’t there before due to not knowing it was around. 
 
Many are spread out from each other in some way even in the same state all because of living situations. Bigger cities usually have more people though because of more public transit
Struggling is more of something that can be changed out after a while. Why? After a while the struggle is over because of getting used to the frequency as well as what to do and how. To further add, one is able to tell others about having Epilepsy.
Helping others especially friends that have started having seizures is something that can go a long ways even though it may not seem like it. Being there for someone after a seizure will always help. Everyone needs friends 
 
Reaching out is always the first step in anything. Many are not willing to do so because of being embarrassed or scared. It is okay to be both. The flipside to that is it will be worth it in the end.
Nobody “deals with it” they live with it. It is not something to be sorry about. It shows negative thoughts and vibes when saying that sorry about living with it.
Change in thinking is something that many can and eventually do because of seeing others with Epilepsy leading a normal life. People assume things about everyone especially those with medical conditions
Positive thinking results in positive thoughts, actions and reactions. Eventually positivity breaks negative thought habits. Often times, those with Epilepsy that get stuck in a negative rut as I call it do not realize how negative they are until later on
Negative thoughts lead to negative actions and reactions. With negativity comes negative outcomes. It also adds a layer of depression because of feeling worthless and useless. Yes that is normal to an extent. Teaching others about Epilepsy as well as leading a normal life to the best of your ability can help even more. It may seem like a lot but it is not when time flies.
Most generally are positive people due to seeing multiple sides of having Epilepsy. There is an added layer to it though. Even the most positive person has many moments of negative and feeling useless. It is one of many things that are inevitable. There are downsides to everything and always will be. There are even people that seem like positive people that are very negative.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Movie Buff


I have always been one of many people that loves watching movies and can learn something from all of the different movies out there.
Lessons can be learned from anything in life even movies. All movies can teach some sort of lesson whether it is romantic, friendship or death. With that, comes understanding. Many do not learn anything if they do not understand it. While some learn quickly, others do not. It may be a day for some or several years for someone else. Much like everything else, people learn things at a different pace because each situation is unique. Everyone has their “Ta-da” moments at different times in addition to learning that occurs at different times
Learning things comes in different ways as well as different times. People often do not realize things until it is way past them. They realize something, learn from it and look at future situations differently. In turn, they gain a unique perspective on it. One that is unique to them. All people learn differently. Some do not learn anything at all. They are in a state of mind where they are too ignorant to learn. Everyone in the world has a unique look on life because of their experiences. If everyone was the same the world would be boring. It is the unique experiences and perspectives that can be taught to others that can make a huge difference in someone’s life.
More often than not, different experiences in addition to unique perspectives can be beneficial in teaching others. It gives other people another point of view. To further add, people can learn just as much if not more from their own past. Combining all of them can help in seeing the bigger picture. Having people to talk to can be helpful due to the feedback that is given. People who care often give feedback that will help and vise versa for those that will not help. In the end, there will always be ways to teach others about different views and perspectives in life.
Lessons come and go every day. It is learning from them that can benefit everyone. It can also permanently save and change lives. 

Friday, February 17, 2012

Life


Life goes on in different ways in addition to different forms with many not knowing how to deal with different situations.
            Being successful in the world is something that many would like to accomplish in any time period. Over time, humanity has made strides in different aspects from technology to human rights. However, it has been only a speck on the map compared to what is to come. People can make many more strides to comprehending everything. Many are ignorant to each other in the sense of not understanding different points of view as well as different lifestyles. It is due to believing in the misconceptions that have been put out that eventually lead to people assuming things instead of asking questions. In time, people will realize that understanding each other will bring more peace and harmony than ever before. Feeling worthless can happen more times than people like to admit.
            Feeling worthless is one of the many feelings people are overwhelmed with that can be devastating to the psyche if not addressed. Many feel worthless from not living up to other peoples standards or even society standards. They think that because they have not lived up to set standards that they are worthless to the world. However, knowing that it is not the end of the world when not owning up to standards is something that can be seen by looking at it from a different perspective. In turn, overcoming it can be easier. More often than not, things are easier than they seem even though they look hard to do. Many think that something is hard to do because they have never done it before when in fact it is easy to do. It is simply the mind saying that it is hard to do. Eventually with repetition, it becomes easier and possibly even routine. The feeling of worthlessness fades away. There are also successful failures that can help the person learn from mistakes as well as teaching others.
            A successful failure is not rare but another route to get to something. It can even be an opening for a new endeavor. It is called a successful failure because it was a partial of each. There was a successful as well as a failed aspect. When people think of successful failure they only see the failure part because of not seeing the successful part of it as such. However, when they see that aspect they see that they can learn from it and pass it on to friends as a teaching tool. When a new endeavor can be started something usually gets put on hold. However, if both can be done simultaneously then both can be done. Often times, people can see both sides and able to cope with it. Afterward, they move on with positive thoughts of the future.
            Moving forward in addition to thinking more positively are two things that can be done even though it will seem like an impossible thing to accomplish. Half of the battle is moving forward and thinking that it can be done. Thinking negatively will more often than not get nowhere due to the obvious fact that being focused is not there. Positive thoughts lead to positive actions whereas negative thoughts lead to negative actions. When a person thinks positively they know that they can accomplish anything even if it seems impossible at first. In time, they achieve things they thought they would never achieve. In time, they eventually become known for things that they accomplished.
            Being successful in the world is something that many can do. Without feeling worthless, people would not learn anything. Moving forward and thinking positively will often get people places when people that are negative will not achieve anything. Having a positive attitude will get people noticed. It is a matter of which is chosen that will matter in the long run.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Growing Up Wrestling: Seeing both sides

Wrestling has been part of many people’s lives for years. For some, they become wrestlers or another part of the wrestling world while others know what it is  like from a unique perspective.
      Like many fans, I did not know that much about wrestling aside from what I saw on television in addition to local shows. To further add, I was like every other fan. I was a young kid who loved wrestling for its competitive nature. It was also because of the people that were involved. Everyone worked together to make the show happen. I got to know some of the other fans as well as the wrestlers and their girlfriends or wives. In time, I came to know more than I envisioned I would ever know. It was not only from research I had done; but, by things that I was told from different sources.
      Not only have I been watching wrestling since I was seven; but, I have been going since I was ten. After a while, I had come to know most if not all the wrestlers as well as quite a few fans. It was not until I was 12 that I felt part of the wrestling  family that I had come to love. Likewise, they had become brothers and sisters. Not only that, but it was also my second home and family. Incidentally, I even got help on some of my homework assignments all due to bringing my homework to a few shows. In contrast, the political side of wrestling was far less happy in addition to being far too pointless a majority of the time.
     Politics are usually never good. It is often a little worse when it comes to the wrestling world. Steroid usage is the main culprit partially due to the bad reputation that it has brought to wrestling. In reference, it tends to come up at some point in a debate along with wrestling deaths. Furthermore, long term usage leads to unwanted side effects along with possibly getting suspended or fired. On the flipside, one of the few good things is that it can also be used in a good light for leverage. The BE A STAR program used by World Wrestling Entertainment (WWE) promotes anti-bullying of any form. There are quite a few way to use politics whether it is good or bad. Politics will always be around in sports. It is one of the things I have witnessed many times before.
     Wrestling is not what many think. It is like any other sports job only year round. In time, people will realize how wrong their viewpoint is.

Monday, January 9, 2012

S word

  People go through life thinking that a disability is something that the person suffers from. In reality, it is more of a learning experience.
  Many people have the misconception stuck in their head that people suffer from different things such as Epilepsy, Diabetes as well as countless other medical conditions. Suffering is when a person is in emotional or physical pain and cannot do anything. People with some chronic conditions may not always be in physical or emotional pain. In contrast, many conditions require constant watch even though the person is not in constant pain. In retrospect, there are conditions such as Depression where the person may be in constant emotional pain. However, things may not always be what they seem until they are looked into further.
   Life experiences happen in life that everyone can learn from. People are different and life is meant to be that way. Otherwise, life would be boring because everyone would be the same. To further add, experience comes from things that happen to us that can impact a person to change their way of thinking. Life happens and everything can be turned into a learning experience. Life is about living and learning. People will no  learn if they do not experience different things that go on in life. People have emotional as well as physical pain in life. That is one thing that people can learn from. Teaching others can be an experience in itself. Teaching others the difference can be a great experience. It can also be a life experience because both sides benefit from each other. The person sharing often feels satisfaction in telling others about their life. Learning, teaching and being optimistic can be a very powerful combination.
   Suffering is a word used by people that do not realize the full meaning of the word. They do not realize that there is more to it than just putting it towards something that renders it useless. Many also do not realize that not all suffer. Many find peace in a condition that they have because it is what makes them unique. It is their own unique stamp that they can use to their advantage. In turn, they are able to teach people something new that they may not otherwise learn unless someone tells them about it. Often times, many do not stop long enough to learn something new. The hectic lifestyle of today leaves little time to learn anything new. However, by learning something new people gain a new sense of thinking in bits in pieces. In time, people connect the dots and a bigger picture is gathered.
   A word is a word that can be used in many ways and in different forms. It is a matter of the real meaning shining through. When it is out in the light people see its true color. There are many challenges in life that can be overcome. It is challenges that can be used as life experience.